I am going to the border. Here’s why.

“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.”-Bishop Desmond Tutu

On Sunday, June 24, I am going to Tornillo, Texas on the Mexican border, where Donald Trump has jailed innocent children. As an elementary teacher, as president of a union of educators dedicated to nurturing every student, as a mother, and as a Latina, I must bear witness to Donald Trump’s unimaginable cruelty and inexplicable inhumanity to children.

Any parent knows the panic of momentarily losing a child in the store, and most of us can remember being children ourselves and feeling the terror sweep over us when we can’t find Mom or Dad. That is after only a few minutes of separation. This is what these tender-aged children, separated from parents who are seeking asylum, are feeling for weeks or months.  The terror these parents and their little ones are experiencing must be unbearable. 

Even if the American Medical Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, and other respected organizations had not issued statements about how damaging such family separations are, members of the NEA understand child development. We know that this is causing irreparable emotional and physical trauma to these boys and girls.

Our outrage is even more acute because all of this—every second of terror, fright, and worry in the lives of these children and parents—results from an intentional policy. A choice Donald Trump made.

We have heard this cruel administration and its enablers refer to child prisons like the one in Tornillo as ‘summer camps’ or ‘boarding schools.’  No one is fooled. Such ridiculous comparisons and asinine justifications simply increase our outrage at their callous, hateful treatment of desperate children. Summer camp is not a jail. This is a jail for children. 

Don’t let Trump pull the wool over your eyes with his executive order to “end family separation.” To actually do that, the administration must end the zero-tolerance policy. As long as the prosecution of parents continues, family separation continues. Furthermore, the administration has created no plan to reunite the thousands of children separated from their parents.

I think the Stoneman Douglas students said it best, when speaking about their own tragedy: We appreciate thoughts and prayers, but they are not going to be enough. Our thoughts and prayers are certainly with these separated, incarcerated children. However, it will take much more for us to repair the damage and end this Trump-made disaster. 

“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.”-Desmond Tutu

We must act!

We must find every politician who’s running for office at any level and demand to know if they are going to protect families from Zero-Compassion policies. These children can’t vote, but we can. And we will!

This terrible tragedy is of Donald Trump’s making, but just as it takes a village to raise a child, it took a particular Trumpian village to imprison these children and then justify it. It took the complicity of people around him who were willing to do his bidding. They created the blueprint to enact his horrible policy and then blithely defended him and themselves.

History will judge and condemn those who separated families and incarcerated children. Toddlers. Babies. The names of their jailers will forever be recorded in the worst chapters of the American story—a story that belongs to each of us, a story that we write with the actions we take, as well as those we fail to take. The culprits will surely be remembered. And so, my friends, will we.

Yes, it took a twisted village to create this crisis. But we will be the village to save these children and families. We will not fail them and we will not lose. We will not abandon any of these blessed children.

If we do not act now, then when will we? The question is no longer, “Who is Donald Trump?” It is: “Who are we?”


4 Responses to “I am going to the border. Here’s why.”

  1. Kevin Stoda

    Thanks for going to the border. We want to see a new Overground railroad to protect kids and families, too. Did you hear of any rumblings of one? We had a such a national organization in the 1980s, we seem to need it again.

  2. Carlos Giuseppe

    I agree that children should be with their parents, except in some circumstances. However, entering into a country illegally is not appropriate, is against the law, and has consequences. This is the same for citizens. No one is exempt. If I break the law and get detained, my children cannot come with me. That’s the way it is! The supposed good (as articulated in this article) of going to the border is ruined by a blatant political agenda and all of the derogatory commentary infused throughout the writing. In the meantime, while the article clearly advocates for using taxpayer funds and resources to cater to those who illegally enter the USA, veterans languish homeless in the streets. The same people who would have given their lives so that you can speak in the way that you do. Give them the resources!! As a lifelong educator (25+ years), the NEA’s behavior now disgusts me and will never have my support again.

  3. Anthony

    How about people stop breaking the law and coming into this country illegally? That would certainly stop the separation. If I or anyone else committed a crime and was arrested, wouldn’t we be separated from our children? It’s time to start looking at this objectively and realize that peoples actions have consequences. We need to have control over who is coming into our country, the same way you control who you let into your home.

  4. Catherine Cole

    Kevin Stoda: We have such an Overground Railroad and I am the national organizer. Please reach me through granniesrespond.org if you wish. We meet Central American asylum-seekers, who have been released by ICE, at the bus stations along their route to the destination of their sponsors. We provide food, snacks, diapers, wipes, feminine hygiene items, toothbrushes and toothpaste, small toys which light up little eyes, whatever we can provide to sustain them through their bus trips and they start out with nothing and no resources.

    To other comments: We are talking mainly about asylum-seekers. It is not, nor has it ever been, a crime to seek asylum in the United States. Even entering illegally is a civil matter. But we are not talking about fence-jumpers here. Those seeking asylum are criminalized and being held in the “icebox” for many days before prison, and now to tents. Children are woken in the night and removed from their shelters and taken to the tent camps. Shame on our government. There are much more sane and humane ways of dealing with this.


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